How To Successfully Overcome Past Hurt FINAL PART

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THIS is the concluding part of post on ‘How to Successfully Overcome Past Hurt’. Like it was previously stated, some scholars argue that if you don’t deal with and conquer the pains of yesterday, you may not enjoy the gains of today, and indeed tomorrow.  

Be prepared to open up. There may be no need trying to deal with a painful past if one isn’t willing to open up on all issues with a professional confidant. By opening up, the confidant can situate the pains of the past and advise on the beauty of today and tomorrow. Trust is key here.

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Refuse blaming yourself and wallowing in regret. There is always a tendency to blame oneself or destiny or indeed God when one encounters troubles. While it is important to do a self-assessment and take responsibility for your actions, you should also take the lead for your moving forward. Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional.

Forgive. Enough cannot be said about forgiveness. You cannot genuinely move forward if you are carrying the burden of unforgiveness. I encourage you to listen to Episode 5 of The Next Level with Chukwuemeka audio for proven scientific benefits of forgiveness.

Let yesterday remain in the grave. Let bygone be bygone. Make a firm resolution to let yesterday be and seize the opportunities of now! No time in human history offers such opportunities as now! Time is short, life is transient. Live it now!!!!!

Remember to keep a date with The Next Level with Chukwuemeka International Self-Discovery and Financial Empowerment Conference coming in November 18 to 19, 2015 in Abuja, and see your life take a new turn. Remember to register to attend.

In your success journey, what insights have you acquired or tips you would like to share? I would like to hear from you. Your feedback is valued.

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