Do You Know How to Ask the Right Questions?

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IN your quest for the good life, in your pursuit of happiness, success and peace of mind, are you clear and resolved on what you really want? This might sound trite, but truth be told, a lot of us have an idea of what we want but are not totally clear about it. Of course this has wider implications. We ask the wrong questions for instance and get the wrong answers. Rather than focus, we disperse energies and efforts. We make imprecise and many times displaced demands on life, and then accuse life of being unfair. I can go on and on.

The story is told of a couple who were celebrating their 70th birthday and 50th wedding anniversary.



The husband asked the wife what she wanted to mark these significant milestones. Without hesitating she said she wanted to go on a holiday to Hawaii. She wanted to enjoy the beaches, the sun and the sand, and who wouldn’t anyway. While on the holiday, walking on the beach, the couple stumbles on a bottle. They pick it up, open it and wuuuuushhh a genie pops out. The genie is very grateful to the couple for releasing him from a long captivity in the bottle. As a sign of his deep gratitude, the genie tells the couple to each make a wish.

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Being a gentleman, the husband allows the wife to go first. The wife wishes for a diamond ring the size of a football. The genie grants it. Next, the husband. The husband wishes for a wife younger by 29 years….boooooom, instantly, wish granted, the husband becomes ….99 years


Indeed the husband got his wish – his wife became 29 years younger, but he didn’t bargain to be 29 years older.

Be careful what you ask for, be clear what you want and what you ask for, or what you don’t ask for may also follow. There are skills in asking the right questions, in demanding from life, and getting the required answers.  What is your name does not mean or include where you are from or what you do.

Do you want to learn crucial life skills for today’s success?  Then keep a date with us at The Next Level with Chukwuemeka International Self-Discovery and Financial Empowerment Conference coming in November 18 and 19, 2015 in Abuja, and see measurable changes in your life and business. Remember to register to attend.

Whether you succeed or not, is really in your hands. Remember that when you set the sails, God sends the wind.


In your success journey, what insights have you acquired or tips you would like to share? I would like to hear from you. Your feedback is valued.

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